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SIGNS OF UNHEALTHY LIMITS AND BOUNDARIES
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Telling all
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Talking at an intimate level on the first meeting
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Falling in love with a new acquaintance
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Falling in love with anyone who reaches out
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Being overwhelmed by a person - preoccupied
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Acting on first sexual impulse
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Being sexual for partner, not self
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Going against personal values or rights to please others
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Not noticing when someone else displays inappropriate boundaries
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Not noticing when someone invades your boundaries
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Accepting food, gifts, touch, sex that you don't want
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Touching a person without asking
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Taking as much as you can get for the sake of getting
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Giving as much as you can give for the sake of giving
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Allowing someone to take as much as they can from you
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Letting others direct your life
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Letting others describe your reality
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Letting others define you
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Believing others can anticipate your needs
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Expecting others to fill your needs automatically
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Falling apart so someone will take care of you
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Self abuse
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Sexual and physical abuse
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Drug, alcohol and tobacco abuse
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Food abuse
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